What to expect at a funeral arrangement
If you’ve never arranged a funeral before, having your first appointment at the funeral home may feel daunting. We want to make you feel as comfortable as possible when meeting with us to make the funeral arrangements.
It's entirely up to you where you want to have the appointment. You may prefer to meet at a funeral home, or at your home, a friend or family members house or even a public place such as a coffee shop, it’s important to do whatever works best for you.
When you book your appointment, you’ll be given a date and time, as well as a name of who you’ll be meeting with.
If you choose to meet with us in one of our funeral homes, you’ll be welcomed by one of our funeral arrangers or funeral directors. We want you to feel as comfortable as possible, so feel free to bring along family members or a friend if you’d like.
There is no such thing as a normal funeral arrangement, you can take as much or as little time as you need, and don’t worry if you can’t make all of the decisions straight away, your funeral director will be able to guide you through everything you’ll need to think about, decide and do.
- What will I need to bring with me?
- What will happen in the funeral arrangement?
- Will I have to pay anything upfront?
- Will I have to know everything I need for the funeral before the arrangement?
What will I need to bring with me?
If you have registered the death you'll need to bring to your funeral appointment the Certificate for Burial or Cremation, or in Scotland, a white Certificate of Registration of Death that you were given by the local registrar. If you haven’t registered the death before your appointment, don’t worry, the funeral director will guide you through what to do.
If you know you want your loved one to be wearing certain items of clothing, then you can bring these with you.
If the person who has died held a funeral plan with us, you can bring the funeral plan certificate with you. If you can’t find it, don’t worry, we’ll get in touch with our funeral plan office who’ll be able to locate this for you.
What will happen in the funeral arrangement?
In the funeral arrangement your funeral director or arranger will want to know what your loved one was like, what their interests were, so that we can make suggestions on how to make the funeral most fitting to the life they lived. We understand that people grieve in different ways, so it's normal to go through a range of emotions in the arrangement.
We’ll be caring for your loved one either at the funeral home or at one of our specialist facilities where they’ll receive the best possible care. If you choose to visit your loved one before the funeral, we can talk you through when is best and what to expect.
At the end of the arrangement you’ll receive an estimate of how much your chosen funeral will cost, but cost will be discussed throughout the appointment. If you feel like things are getting too expensive, we can tailor the funeral to keep costs down. We've been signed up to Fair Funerals pledge since 2016, meaning we have a responsibility to be transparent with our prices, including third party costs, and have open and honest conversations with families about money and affordable options.
Will I have to pay anything upfront?
Yes. Any payments we make to third parties on your behalf will need to be paid within 24 hours of making the funeral arrangements. To find out how much third party fees may cost in your area use our funeral cost calculator.
Will I have to know everything I need for the funeral before the arrangement?
It’s good to know what sort of funeral your loved one would have wanted, and if you have a budget in mind. Your funeral director can talk you through what options are available to suit your needs and your budget. Read more about our funeral services.
You don’t have to make all the decisions on all aspects on the funeral at the arrangement, your funeral director will give you time and guide you through when decisions need to be made.
We’ll work with you and the other people involved in the funeral (church/crematorium, ministers etc) to ensure the service is held at a date and time suited to your needs. Kindly note that the Simple Funeral has some restrictions so if you choose this option you won’t have any choice in date or time of the funeral. Your funeral director will discuss this with you in more detail.